Wedding Words of Wisdom - 10.14.17

This was a very busy weekend with a wedding and a baby blessing. The wedding was at LaCentre, what I consider to be the premiere wedding venue in the Cleveland area. The lovely couple was Mike and Amy who had a wedding party of 17. It was a big and beautiful. The ceremony started with a baby of one of the bridesmaids deciding that he most definitely didn't want to be there. So, the mother had to take care of him and her husband walked down the aisle alone. I'm sure she was disappointed but she was very needed by her infant son. It's always good to have a Plan B with babies and young children.

Then the best flower girl I have ever seen who was about 8 years old came out in great flourish. Instead of tossing the flower petals on the runner, she threw them up in the air not only in the aisle but also on the guests! She was just a little spit fire. So cute! The bride was extremely calm and sincere as was the groom except for some sweating of the forehead during the vows and ring exchange. Very endearing. Wishing them so much love.

Have to mention my sparkly shoes that were a big hit. They are gold but also look silver as the light changes. Who said that the minister can't wear sparkly shoes?

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 10.6.17

This week's wedding was on Friday with a beautiful young couple, Tyler and Niki. Planning an outdoor wedding in October is risky but the weather held out for them although it was a bit cloudy. At 68 degrees it was a perfect temperature for a 6:30 p.m. wedding. The bride and groom chose to write their own vows - something that the majority of the couples I marry don't do. They were nervous but both did a wonderful job. They have been together for six years and their vows were sweet, honest and very heartfelt. Their family was very warm and gracious and made me quite comfortable and honored to be officiating. I wish them all much love and happiness.

When planning a wedding always plan to start at least 5-10 minutes late. Even though we started this wedding 10 minutes late people still came in during the ceremony. It never ceases to amaze me that people do not understand that they should arrive on time for a wedding. Latecomers happen at EVERY wedding I perform. So since it is a reality - plan for it.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 9.23.17

The second wedding for last weekend was for Tyler and Terra at Mill Hollow Amphitheater in Vermillion. It was another beautiful, very hot afternoon. This venue was in a public park and quite unique. I married the groom's brother and best man in a wedding last year during what turned out to be hurricane. That was one I will never forget. It was great to see Mark and Mandy again. Wishing the very sweet bride and groom much love and happiness.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 9.30.17

Dale and Ellen were married on the rooftop of the Ariel International Center this past Saturday and this was the view the guests enjoyed. It was beautifully clear but just a bit chilly with the wind coming off the lake. Thankfully, the reception was one floor down inside. I didn't get a photo of the bride and groom because they quickly took off after the ceremony to have photos taken. It was a wonderful ceremony with two people doing readings and a special musical performance by several members of Ellen's family with guitar accompaniment.. Her brother-in-law wrote a special song just for the wedding couple and it brought tears to the bride's eyes. What a wonderful gift! I love performing weddings for mature adults - usually second marriages - because they really listen to the words of the ceremony and sincerely mean their vows. Maturity gives them a better understanding of what a marriage is. Such a loving and warm couple. Wishing them all the best.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 9.22.17

Yesterday was the wedding of Shane and Desiree at Springlake Party Center in Lakemore. What a wonderful surprise venue right on the lake. The bride and groom couldn't look more perfect - both a bit nervous and so sweet. In front of 200 plus guests, they said their vows. It was in the upper 80s but there was no humidity so it was just about perfect.

Shane is the drummer in the Michelle Romary Band and the band played at the ceremony as well as at the reception. Michelle sang "At Last" by Etta James as a solo in the middle of the ceremony. What a treat to have live music and such an accomplished performer. When planning the music for your wedding, consider live music versus a DJ for the ceremony. It really adds a very special touch and makes weddings even more memorable.

My "assistant" (my husband, John) accompanied me so I have more photos than usual. Check out the very sweet flower girl and ring bearer. They did a great job.

Wishing much love and happiness to this special couple.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 9.9.17

It was an absolutely perfect day for a wedding with beautiful Lake Erie in the background. I married Tony and Emily at Mentor Beach Park in Mentor-On-The-Lake. The beautiful bride was pretty nervous but her groom was as calm as could be. What they both knew was that this was going to be the best day of their lives.

For those of you thinking about an outdoor wedding, remember that we have yellow jackets in Northeast Ohio and they sometimes like to be part of weddings. I once had two yellow jackets somehow get inside my robe and proceeded to sting me five times. I actually had to stop the wedding to get them out and then continued on with a smile on my face. :) Yellow jackets decided to swam around the bride during her vows at this wedding. We just stopped for a second to shoo them away. Bad timing though - they seem to like vows!

Wishing this very nice couple much love and happiness.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 8.9.17

This was the wedding of the daughter of a childhood friend of mine. It was a blending of two beautiful families - Jim and Christen Curtin. They both have a girl and boy from previous marriages and the children are thrilled to have new brothers and sisters. It was Gerevasi Vineyard in Canton - what an incredible venue. The ceremony was in The Conservatory which looks like a greenhouse except that is air conditioned. The children and I walked in fist. This is the photo of us waiting for Jim and Christen to enter together which is something that is becoming more common. You see from the faces of the kids that they are very happy about this union. It was quite an honor for me to officiate for the daughter of a friend I have had my entire life. We lived across the street from each other and our mothers were best friends as well. Lovely memories.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 8.19.17

This past weekend I performed two beautiful and very different weddings. Even though the weather looked pretty iffy both times it was beautiful. The first was at Solstice Steps in Lakewood Park. It is just gorgeous! I had never heard of this place right on Lake Erie. What an incredible view! Wendy and Chuck Sinito were married on the steps in front of their parents and aunt - a beautiful and very intimate ceremony. What a lovely couple - and so much in love. The met on match.com and you could tell that they truly are a great match for each other. I particularly enjoy these small, intimate weddings that are usually for people who are past 30 and really know what they want in a partner. And have found it! Wishing them a joyous live together!

The second wedding this weekend was a very large one at Williams on the Lake in Medina. It's an incredibly beautiful venue. This wedding was for Angela and Marcus Kaiser - a young, very sweet couple. The weather held for this one as well. Actually, it was quite warm and I worried for some of the older family and guests. But they had water for them and the groom and his brother walked their grandmother down the aisle to be seated. Very lovely woman. Unfortunately, with all the photo taking after I was not able to get a photo with them.

Wedding Words of Wisdom 8.12.17

Lamount and April and their blended family became one at Michaud's Event Center in Strongsville. It was a perfect day - blue sky and 78 degrees. Only one little mishap. The rose petals for the flower girl could not be found at the time of the service. But they were tracked down in ten minutes and all went as planned although a bit late. Lesson here is tohave a check list for the day of the wedding and give your bridesmaids and groomsmen individual tasks so you two don't have to worry about anything.

The bride looked stunning in a gorgeous satin gown and the groom was as handsome as ever - even though he confessed that he hates to dress up! A very friendly group of 200 plus cheered the pronouncement as their children rushed the "stage" at the end. Lots of love flowing! I was honored to be a small part of it.

Wedding Words of Wisdom 7.22.17

I perform a lot of weddings as an alternative to couples going to the courthouse. This weekend I performed a wedding IN the courthouse - the Old Courthouse in downtown Cleveland. If you have never been there you should stop and see the incredibly beautiful Rotunda right in the middle of the building on Lakeside Ave. I married Doug and Brittany Oliverio, two lovely people with lovely families. The bridesmaids and groomsmen entered from an incredible marble staircase. Then the stunning bride with two fathers escorting her. I wish I had taken some photos of the venue but you can see part of the staircase in this photo. It was beautiful and very unique - a wedding to remember for sure. If you're looking for a venue that is classy, unique and architecturally beautiful, the Old Courthouse is one to check out.

Wedding Words of Wisdom 7.15.17

This past weekend's wedding was one of the largest and most beautiful I have ever participated in. James and Alyssa are the perfect couple - sweet, polite, kind and oh, so much in love. "She's my girl," said James as I kidded him right before the service saying this was his last chance to run. They had their ceremony and reception at Springvale Ballroom in North Olmsted. Just a beautiful traditional type ballroom. Everything was exceptional - decorations, flowers, champagne for 250 it looked like, photo booth and even an ice cream sundae bar. Wishing them so much love and happiness.

Weddings can be any size - for a price. Some people prefer a huge wedding like this with 18 people in the bridal party and others go for a more intimate approach. Make sure that what you are thinking is what the two of you want - and no one else. Remember that this is your day! It should be all about the two of you.

Wedding Words of Wisdom 7.8.17

On this perfect July afternoon, Fred and Candy Lutz said "I do" at the pavillion at Allardale Park in Medina. I don't think I have seen two more in love people. Their vows were so heartfelt and sincere. Plus they are super nice people. Candy looked stunning in a gorgeous, long lace dress. Her hair, by stylist Sherrie Kovach of Salon Evangelene in Medina, was beautiful. Fred was pretty cute, too! Wishing them much love and happiness!

Weddings can be held anywhere. In the summer in Northeast Ohio we have so many lovely parks to choose from. When thinking about a park be sure to remember to pick one that is easy to walkto for your older guests and have bathroom facilities. This wedding was in a pavilion which would alsohave worked if it had rained. Always have a Plan B with our weather being so unpredictable.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 7.1.17

This morning I married Ed and Denise Becka in their beautiful home in Brunswick. Such a nice, loving couple. Check out the Best Man and Maid of Honor! So cute! It doesn't matter what size the wedding - all that matters is how much you love each other. And it was certainly apparent that Ed and Denise are meant to be husband and wife.

Pets can work well in a wedding if they are used to crowds and are well trained. These dogs were well trained and there was no problem mainly because there were only a few people at the wedding. I have done several weddings with dogs and they all went off very well. But if you are considering adding your pet to the wedding party be sure to check with your venue. I have no problem with them but some venues do.

Denise & Ed

Maid of Honor Millie

Best Dog Man

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 6.19.17

I married this sweet couple this past weekend. The now Mr. & Mrs. Jacob and Rebecca Crislip's ceremony took place at Twinhaven in Twinsburg. Thank goodness it took place in air conditioned indoors since it was 91 degrees outside. And, yes, Jabob is a big man. I'm 5' 7"and I felt short compared to his 6'6". And his wife is even shorter. But he's a big teddy bear - he was choked up and teary throughout most of the ceremony. So cute - and so much in love!

If you are planning an outdoor wedding in the middle of summer consider what the temperature is likely to be - not only for our erratic Northeast Ohio weather but also for the comfort of you and your guests. While Jacob and Rebecca had their ceremony and reception indoors - they enjoyed the beautiful but very hot weather outside for cocktails and photos. Everyone was quite happy to get back inside for the cool air.

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 6.12.17

On this very toasty weekend, I performed a wedding at Maplewood Farm in Lucas, Ohio. This was pretty much a perfect wedding. Warren and Hali were not only a beautiful bride and groom but both are just the nicest and kindest people. It was a rustic theme with the whole wedding party wearing cowboy boots - including me! I have been asked to wear boots so many times that I finally got a pair last year. And they really are as comfortable as everyone says.

More brides need to think about comfort when it comes to shoes. I have seen so many weddings where the bride and bridesmaids are all wearing expensive six-inch heels and immediately taking them off after the ceremony. Take a hint from the boot wearing girls - go for comfort it. It's going to be a long party. I've seen many change into flip flops. Something to think about when you are choosing footwear for your special day.

Wedding Words of Wisdom 3.30

I thought I would start sharing some insight to would-be brides and grooms that I have gained after performing hundreds of weddings for over eighteen years. I will post them as Spirit moves me and as new ones occur. Here's the first one - enjoy!

If you are thinking of having your adorable little niece or nephew as flower girl and ring bearer, please give this some real thoughtful consideration. If they are under the age of 5 it is highly unlikely that they will actually make it down the aisle. Most of the time they do pretty well at the rehearsal but as soon as they see all the people at the wedding they freak out and start screaming and running the other way.

Think about it. You're 2 or 3 years old and all of a sudden you are expected to walk into a crowd of people you don't know.

Sometimes it works but that is usually when the little one walks down hand in hand with an older sibling. Yes, it could be adorable but it does not start out the wedding well if the poor child is terrorized. Plus it takes away from the big moment when the bride is to make her grand entrance.